Monday, 16 July 2012

Life Of Lola: Chapter 2, 3, and 4 (Part 2, Serial Style)



CHAPTER 2
            Isla stared at the off-white stucco ceiling. It was five in the morning and the dark light—or lack thereof—had sneakily turned into a milky cerulean. Isla was irked. Oliver had walked back into her life without so much as to ask permission or warn her. She knew in her heart that the next weeks would be sticky, to put it nicely.
            As she lay wide-awake, she flashbacked to her youth. Isla recalled her first encounter with Oliver. It was at the local general store. She was picking up tweezers because Kaya, her little sister, had stolen them from her. As her awkward 17-year-old self turned an aisle, she bumped into a man. This man looked at her with his intense eyes. He apologetically whispered, “Forgive me. I just had a major history exam and have had little sleep; I am a bit delirious”. Isla could not believe how beautiful the young college-aged male was. He was a rich mixture of what seemed to be Native American, Greek, and South Asian. Not only was his face picture perfect, but also he seemed like a nice gentleman. His height was lengthy and he had muscles where Isla didn’t think muscles could exist. She smiled weakly at him. She was frustrated that she had the inability to produce a single word. “No worries,” she squeaked. Oliver replied, “I’m Oliver; but my friends call me Olly.” 

            Isla was kind of uninterested when it came to men. Her boyfriend from the end of middle school and the beginning of high school cheated on her with a senior cheerleader. From that point on, she was jaded and developed this spunky and go-getting personality. She was hardened and rarely let anyone in. Yet, she felt like she could let Olly in. This was bizarre, as she only had known him for six minutes. She had never been so attracted to someone like this.
            Olly politely remarked, “I have to be going. I am expected at a friend’s house in town. I am kind of late, which is a bit of an understatement”. Disappointed, Isla said, “Well, it was nice meeting you and I hope you have the opportunity to catch up on some siesta-ing”. Siesta-ing? How silly and young could she sound? Feigning indifference, she let the love of her life slip from her sight.
            Isla was sad. She returned home in her beaten up Ford, only to realize she had forgotten to buy the stupid tweezers. When she walked through the doors, she stared dumbfounded. Chase ran up to her and practically jumped. “Illy, meet my boyfriend, O—or Oliver, I guess. He is the one I was telling you about…the handsome guy who I used to run with! Remember the stud muffin that was my study buddy?” As Oliver turned toward Isla, he gasped. As he contemplated her lean figure and pretty, youthful face, he realized that this was the girl he had flirted with earlier. Uh oh. He finagled himself into playing it cool and responded, “Hi Illy, it’s an honor to meet you”. He felt horrible at the falsity of his statement, as if he had laid eyes on her for the first time.
            From that day onward, it was highly uncomfortable in the Jones household. Olly and Illy would exchange furtive glances at each other at the dinner table, on the tennis court, and at the country club down the road. There was an undeniable attraction between them. Both did not intend to hurt Chase, but it was hard to resist. 

            When news came around that Oliver had proposed to Chase, Isla grew livid. She could not believe his betrayal. All those long walks on the beach and clandestine meetings in the country club conference room meant nothing now. The sparks they had dissipated into thin air—like they had never come into existence. The cautious and mostly flirtatious looks were now looks of hurt and disappointment—mostly on Isla’s end.
            Isla continued to have ill feelings toward Olly. She could not help it. She firmly believed that he was the one man that could salvage her from her past and introduce a more optimistic future filled with love and unbreakable trust.
            Isla turned on her side on her bed. She wished that she had someone to kiss goodnight and someone to wake up in the middle of a nightmare. Instead, she was alone. Ironically, she was not by herself. In technical terms, she could disrupt Oliver’s sleep with scary details of a dream. Wishful thinking, she liked to call it.


CHAPTER 3
            Oliver looked at his mustard wristwatch. He had come into and out of sleep for the entirety of the night, making things quite counter-effective. As he writhed his fatigued body, he thought of Isla. Her face had not changed. She still had those sage eyes and rosy cheeks. Her natural complexion was like porcelain. Maybe Snow White did have some competition after all… Oliver had noticed the change in Isla’s figure; however, he kind of believed that the hefty look suited her and defined her best features. 

            Oliver reminisced about his younger years, or what he sarcastically referred to as the glory days. He remembered the first time he met Isla. She was fresh and different. He smirked as he noticed how nervous she was as she babbled to him at that general store. Later, when he discovered her true persona, he teased her about how smitten she was with him. The funny thing was that nothing really came to fruition in the arena that was Oliver and Isla. Yet, at the same time, it symbolically did happen. There was this strong connection that both of them quietly but conspicuously embraced. It was all the more powerful because it was solely unchecked emotions.
            Oliver felt sick to his stomach thinking how he hurt Isla. To him, Isla was transparent. He recognized the swift change in disposition once Chase started to gloat about her fancy ring finger and the arm candy that would soon be permanent. He could see her melancholy nature and it hurt him to look at her again. He felt dishonest and deceitful. He questioned why he had asked Chase to marry him in the first place. And then he remembered.
As the morning light crept into the small family room, Oliver sat upright. For some reason, he felt like running. All Oliver wanted to do was run from his life, his fragile, meaningless life. He pinched his arm and convinced his pathetic self to grow up and face the fear that was his past. He wondered about what Isla was thinking in the room right above him. If only he knew that she had parallel notions…
CHAPTER 4

 Lola opened her eyes to the early morning. She peeled the sheets off her aqua bed and walked to the bathroom. Washing her face felt cathartic. She peered thoughtfully into the mirror. Everybody in school thought she was gorgeous. Her best friend, Meghana, a fellow adoptee, begged her to try her hand at modeling. She was half Indian, a quarter Irish and a quarter Japanese. She had warm hazel eyes and deep auburn locks of hair. She had a golden tan that stayed with her during the winter. Lola never understood her exotic appeal. 

Lola was not the most outgoing individual. She was not known for her popularity or athletic skills in high school. She was a nerd who excelled in the classroom. This allowed her to keep to herself and hide behind her textbooks. Lola was very quiet about her beauty and would rather hide it than expose herself. She felt especially bashful when boys at her school stared at her, to their jealous cheerleader girlfriends’ dismay.
Once Lola shimmered some peach blush on her cheeks and highlighted her eyes with dark brown eyeliner, she pulled her hair up and tiptoed down the stairs. Hoping to see Oliver, she peeked into the family room. Disappointed, she saw the afghans her grandmother had made folded clumsily. The man from last night was nowhere in sight. Aunt Isla could tell that Lola was frustrated. “Morning, honey. Oliver went for a run around Lake Moore but he will be back after you return. I know you’re anxious, sweetie, but I need you to be patient, ok?” Lola feigned lack of concern and replied, “Yeah. Whatever, see you later Aunt Illy”.
Internally, Lola was so annoyed. She had so many unanswered questions and they would remain in this condition until dusk. On the bus, she blocked out Meghana’s unexciting chatter as she imagined what Oliver’s story was. Maybe he was the twin of her father, but he had been left in the river by accident when he was a baby. No, too Moses-like. Maybe he was the older, more successful offspring who caused envy from other family members. Or maybe he was the son who took all his family’s money. Wait; that is basically the prodigal son. For someone who is agnostic, I am really rocking the whole Bible tale.
Lola breezed through the halls of her school. Once she saw Dev, she ran up to him, practically jumping on him. Dev was an exchange student from Dubai and happened to be living with the world’s most obnoxious jock Mason next door to her house. Dev was amazing. He was witty, had a posh accent, and was down to earth. He was noticeably wealthy, yet never flaunted it. He was humble and sweet, conscientious and thoughtful. Dev and Lola had quickly developed a friendship that could be likened to Dawson and Joey from Dawson’s Creek. Dev had created that analogy as he was consumed by the show ever since he took an elective on American pop culture. Dev was part Indian and part Welsh. As a result, he was deeply beauteous. He had high cheekbones and pretty eyelashes. His smile was adorable.
Lola exclaimed, “Dev, I have so much to tell you!” Dev responded, “Alright, then. Spill, my dear”. Lola took the next fifteen minutes before school officially began to divulge the juice that was the mysterious and unexpected appearance of Oliver. She described his rich eyes and fancy shoes. Dev was intrigued by the sudden burst of excitement in Lola’s life. He was in need for some made-for-TV drama that he could vicariously live through. Then again, he was dealing with a huge secret in the Erikson household. Mason’s father had been sneaking around with Delilah Rogers, the town’s Barbie-doll baker, behind Mrs. Erikson’s back.
As Lola finished up her story that seemed utterly unreal, the bell rang. Class had begun; thus, Lola and Dev peeled off in opposite directions. Lola tried to muster up the strength of mind to survive to day without going crazy. Oliver, I am going to get to the bottom of this. Get ready, set, go!

Wednesday, 11 July 2012

SUPER BAD.

Oi from Salvador, Bahia!

I have waited ages to finally be inducted into a Brazilian blast that is the Cross-Cultural Solutions intern experience! Now that it has finally arrived, my curiosity has been sensationally satiated. It has only been five days, yet I feel like it has been at least three weeks. The people I am working with are absolutely amazing. We have an eclectic group, geographically, age-wise, and in respects to personality. To give you a glimpse, we have a mom who is obsessed with Bruno Mars, a college soccer player who is fluent in Spanish, French, and Portuguese (jealous!), two Jacks (referred to Jack squared together, and the square root of Jack squared separately.....naturally.), an oboe player, a Russian vodka-drenched watermelon lover, a kid called Polo (who believes in the phrase, "YOLO."), and two massage therapists. Ok, sorry, that was a tad more than a glimpse. But, I cannot express how seamlessly we all fit together. With the risk of coming off as cheesy, it's like we are this giant quilt with some crazy colors and profound patterns. We are best buddies, brothers and sisters, and hopefully friends for the long run. We are already beginning to plan reunions once we all return to the States.



So, I am trying to contemplate the entirety of my experiences so that I can handpick the most prime ones. I think I will start with the location of our home base. I will refrain from disclosing the exact location for a sound safety measure (like any Brazilian homeless dude is reading my blog anyway...). Our base, or as we fondly refer to it as "the fort," is placed in the safe neighborhood of Graca (p.s. I don't think Google blog websites have the option of inserting symbols). The home is simple, yet comfortable. It can be most likened to a nice hostel with common lounges and camp-style dining area....AND A HAMMOCK! We often end up cuddling up on the couches and watching hilarious(ly funny and/or bad) movies like Super Bad, John Tucker Must Die, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Clockwork Orange (weirdest. movie. ever.), and Easy A. We are probs going to watch Super Bad again since it was super epic. This was my first time watching it, and I have never laughed so much! A huge perk about our home base is that it is dangerously close to an ice cream place. Oh, and I'd be remiss if I did not mention the breathtaking beach scene just a mere five minutes away. It makes for a beautiful landscape to run along and potential picks for paintings!







My work site is absolutely fantastic. It is a heartwarming place where the students are absolutely adorable. 60% of them are mischievous 100% of the time. Unfortunately (and entertainingly), childlike fighting is ubiquitous. At first, I was sad that I could not work with the tiny nuggets on the first floor. However, after reevaluating my career interests, I was content with my placement. So far, teaching and helping 4, 5, and a few 6 year olds has been delightful. When they babble in their squeaky, high-pitched Portuguese accents, I just want to take them home!





Every day, I get the chance to take over the classroom and teach English. My favorite part about this is that I get to apply all that I have learned thus far in my education classes at college. It's funny how I unintentionally utilize the Launch, Engage, and Summarize pedagogical lesson plan format. On the first day, I worked with the children on numbers, spoken in English. After they repeated after me the numbers (which, surprisingly, they already knew), I decided to use the popular children's game, "Duck, Duck, Goose," to practice using numbers. As a variation, I called out a number. The leader would have to tap the number of children that I had requested before choosing a goose. The kids had a good laugh while they gradually caught on to the purpose of the activity. Then, we completed some human math problems. By grouping together members of the class, we formed isolated whole numbers. Then, we amalgamated them to find the total sum. As a closing activity, I tried to teach them "Steal the Bacon". This is one of my all-time favorite games, especially the soccer version! I have to say this was TOO funny. When I called the number 9, every last one of them ran to the pillow in the middle and piled on top of one another. I guess the objective did not come through to them!

Today, I taught them the colors. I wrote them on the board as a launch activity and asked them to indicate the color in the classroom and on their clothing. The way they said pe-ink, waa-ight, and bl-oo was too cute! As the explore activity, we all created a rainbow (or arco-iris). One by one, I asked them to take red, orange, yellow (and so on...) and create an arc. The teacher kindly translated the colors in Portuguese. I have some great photos on my camera that collectively make up some meaningful artifacts. Lastly, to finish off the lesson, I read them a color book; well, I did not exactly read because I am in no way close to perfecting the Portuguese accent, but I did point to colors. This was a great way to summarize the day's learning. I am so pleased with the way the children are absorbing the material. They do not let any poverty or shortcoming get in their way. They will prove to be tenacious individuals as they make their way in the world!

Ok, so my buddies (the two Jack's to be exact) just put in Super Bad. So, I am super distracted and super drawn to the hotness and gorgeousness that is JONAH HILL. And McLOVIN'.



The next blog will have more of an emphasis on my cultural endeavors!

Tchau!
Arlene





Wednesday, 4 July 2012

Life of Lola: Chapter 1 (Part 1, Serial Style)


Life of Lola
By Arlene Pereira
CHAPTER 1



Her cheek grazed the cold charcoal concrete road. Her wet hair in segregated clumps spread out like a fan. Her blurred eyeliner made her look like a callous geisha who was trying to escape her oppressor.  Lola had been running. She had been running too fast. Inertia was not a friend at this late hour. It was two in the morning and all Lola wanted to do was run from her life, her fragile, meaningless life.


Lola could not imagine how turbulent the last few weeks had been. Everything seemed normal and mundane on that Sunday evening. She was relishing the usual cabernet pork roast that her Aunt Isla was so famous for making. It was raining outside, but it was oddly pleasing. It was just the two of them, like it had been for the last decade. The doorbell rang and Lola’s aunt jumped. “Who would be at our doorstep at this time in the night on a Sunday?” Isla uttered.
Lola excused herself from the kitchen table and reached for the front door. Behind the mahogany barrier stood a tall man. He seemed tired and weak, almost helpless. Lola stared deep into his hazel eyes, which were shockingly similar to hers. He spoke softly, “Hi, Lola. My name is Oliver. I am your uncle from North Dakota. My wife has just died and I have no one left to care for me.” Lola maintained her blank stare. It was like she could look deep into his soul. The quiver in his voice made her dubious; yet, she was intrigued too by this unexpected stranger. Those hazel eyes convinced her that he was indeed her relative. Lola replied, “Please come in.”            `


            Oliver politely removed his jacket and shoes. The shoes were clearly an expensive Italian make. At the same time, it looked like they were worn out. It was as if he walked from North Dakota to Rhode Island. As the shadow dismissed the tall figure, the kitchen light shone brightly, exposing his visage.
            It only took Aunt Isla one glance to know who the damp fellow was. Lola watched as Aunt Isla’s face became purple with disgust. She sternly commanded, “Lola, I need three eggs for tomorrow morning’s breakfast. You need to be well nourished for your history exam. I also need some milk and cinnamon sugar.” Lola took the cue to give the two adults some privacy, and immediately exited the room.
            The tension was palpable. This was understandable as the conversation about to transpire would be volatile, filled to the brim with anger, regret, misunderstanding, and hurt feelings. Oliver walked over to Aunt Isla and gave her an uncomfortable embrace. Aunt Isla proceeded to give him a hard slap on the side of his weary face. Oliver pleaded, “Please forgive me, Illy. You know I did not want my life to turn out this way. I never intended to run away from my complex issues. I am looking for redemption, and most of all lost love. I am completely empty inside. I feel nothing anymore, and that is no way to live this beautiful life”.
Isla’s emotions were brewing inside her, like a witch’s caldron. There was teardrop from ten years ago, a rosary bead still pink with innocence, a locket from her dead sister, and a false promise from her brother-in-law. All these remnants, both intangible and tangible, were broiling together. The amalgamation generated evaporation that impinged Isla’s wounded heart and scorched her soul.
Oliver could see that Isla’s was struggling to say the right words. She had always been a feisty girl, and age had not withered her tenacity. Oliver went closer to her and spoke in a gentle tone, “Listen, Illy. You do not need to forgive me; that is not what I request of you. I only ask that you find it in yourself to accept. Accept the circumstances and redirect your expectations of me. I come to you as a humble man who has much to rue.” Isla looked at Oliver, deep into his eyes. They were still as gorgeous and alluring as they were when they were younger. She caved in and answered, “Ok. You have two weeks to pick up the shattered pieces. You need to tell Lola everything—and don’t you dare hold back because you know that I will reveal everything, with all the gory details of woe.”


Lola stepped into the small home. She peered through the hallway and saw that Oliver was fast asleep on the couch. Oliver looked like he had some American Indian blood in him. He had rough mandarin skin and a defined nose that looked like it had taken a few hits before. His hair was silky black. Lola felt odd examining his countenance while he was asleep, but she could not help the intrigue of this nomad sleeping soundly in her family room.
Lola had the urge to wake him up and solve the mystery of his sudden presence. She wondered why he would show up after so many years. Aunt Isla told Lola little of her family and her past. She gave the reason that her family was irresponsible and incapable of emulating the true values of loved ones. Lola reluctantly accepted this and never asked again. Yet, she was curious everyday of her life. Leaving her foster home at eight was the best experience. Her aunt welcomed her with open arms. Aunt Isla was stunning; however, she was a big lady. She was strong-willed and nurturing, everything that Lola needed. Lola felt at home with her aunt and appreciated her efforts to take care of an orphan.
Despite Isla’s amazing love, Lola was angry with her past, especially her neglectful parents.  She felt unworthy of their invisible love.  She questioned their integrity and sanity. Why would they leave their lovely baby daughter? Lola made a promise to herself that she would discover her past and find the answers that she longed to possess. Lola’s head was spinning as she processed all that was occurring. She decided to let the man rest and to bother him in the morning.
Lola would navigate through loops and pitfalls to discover who she was at the core. She was up to the challenge and would not back down. It just wasn’t in her blood to give up. Or at least she assumed…


Friday, 22 June 2012

The Musical Episode

Hey y'all!

I have been longing to write a blog regarding this topic! Music is probably my favorite hobby; I absolutely love to dance to old tunes and discover new ones. My eclectic taste in music never bores me. I love how versatile music can be! It can cheer you up, increase focus, get you pumped for a workout, or make you sob.

I have compiled a list of songs that I have recently fell in love with. If you ask anyone who knows me well, I take music very seriously. I often give songs the lucky 3, which means that I will listen to a song on three separate occasions before I either hold on to it or discard of it. Why do I find this necessary? I once chose to get The OC Mix as an incentive for selling Girl Scout magazines. I become so upset once I listened to it. Despite the artsy and "cool" cover, the songs were horrible. Now, it is one of my all-time favorite CDs (next to A Walk To Remember's soundtrack, of course!).  I treasure each one of my songs!  I am known among my family members to make pretty great cd's...so I think you can trust me! Ok, so here it goes....

Quirky Folk Songs



Mountain Sound- Of Monsters and Men
You and I- Ingrid Michaelson
Some Nights- Fun
Tongue Tied- Grouplove
Home- Edward Sharpe and The Magnetic Zeros
Ho Hey- The Lumineers
Lost in World- Kanye West ft. Bon Iver
All of This- The Naked Truth
Alligator- Tegan and Sara
Country Roads Remix- Hermes House Band
Heads Will Roll- The Yeah Yeah Yeah's
Fidelity- Regina Spektor
Mama Who Bore Me (Reprise)- Broadway's Spring Awakening
Animal- Neon Trees
For The Widows In Paradise...- Sufjan Stevens
Twilight- The Weepies
The Crash Years- The New Pornographers
What You Know- Two Door Cinema Club
Jesus, Etc. -Wilco
Jolene- Dolly Parton
War on Sound- Moonbabies (from Grey's Anatomy)
Silver Lining-
Skinny Love- Birdy
Tighten Up- The Black Keys
Naive- The Kooks
Amsterdam- Guster
New Slang- The Shins
Love Song- Enya
5 Years Time- Noah and the Whales

Amazing beats from Londontown!






Take It Back- Toddla T
Kickstarts- Example
Hello- Martin Solveig
Pass Out- Tinie Tempah
Frisky- Tinie Tempah
Sweat- Snoop Dogg
Baditude- Dave Spoon ft. Paul Harris
Bongo Jams- Calista
Tell Me- DJ NG ft. Katy B.
Someone Like You- Adele
Beautiful People- Chris Brown

Singer/Song Writer Bliss






Born and Raised- John and Mayer
A Team- Ed Sheeran
Drunk- Ed Sheeran
Freshman- Jay Brannan
Animal (Miike Snow cover)- Javier Dunn
In The Sun- Joseph Arthur
Paperweight- Joshua Radin ft. Schuyler Fisk
Die Alone- Ingrid Michaelson
Last Request- Paolo Nutini
Brighter Than The Sun- Colbie Caillat

Country Swagger





Something Like That (BBQ Stain)- Tim McGraw
Springsteen- Eric Church
Time is Love- Josh Turner
Something 'Bout a Truck- Kip Moore
Wild at Heart- Gloriana
Charlie and Me Talking- Miranda Lambert
When I Get Where I'm Going- Brad Paisley ft. Dolly Parton
Fast Cars and Freedom- Rascal Flatts

Dancing in your Room Tunes






For Your Love- Chris Brown
Fancy Footwork- Step Up 3D soundtrack
Let Me C It- Step Up 3D soundtrack
The Motto (Clean!)- Drake
Waka Waka (Time for Africa)- Shakira
Clumsy- Fergie
BoysBoysBoys- Lady Gaga
Bust A Move- Young MC
Hot Hot Hot- Bina Mistry
Firework- Katy Perry
Oh, What a Night (December 1963)- Franki Valli and the Four Seasons
Gin and Juice- Snoop Dogg
Without Me- Eminem


Dawson's Creek-esque






Good Mother- Jane Arden
As I Lay Me Down- Sophie Hawkins
I Want You- Savage Garden
Say Goodnight, Not Goodbye- Beth Nielson Chapman
Chin Up- Amy Stroup
I'll Stand By You- The Pretenders
World Outside- The Devlins
Saturday Morning- The Eels
Here With Me- Dido


Enjoy and let me know what you think!

Musically yours,
Arlene






Monday, 11 June 2012

A New Kind of South of Broad, Pat Conroy style

Hello all!

I am stressed and fatigued as my last week of junior year comes to a close. It is my deepest desire that my three months of exploration will come to fruition. I have learned plenty about various topics such as social studies methods, urban planning in Philadelphia, literacy assessment differentiation, curriculum based measurement for special needs students, and use of ratio tables to teach math methods.

Although my goals are clear and my list of tasks to do lengthy, I am trying to seek the time to divert my attention to other matters. Since the Client List (yes, my embarrassing guilty pleasure!) is not uploaded to Hulu.com yet, I decided to return to the profound city of Charleston, South Carolina, in which Leo King accounts his coming of age story in all its glory, mistakes, and hopes.



Pat Conroy is by far my favorite author. His ability to intrigue a reader is beyond fantastic. His words are a fluid stream of beauty. He seamlessly strings together phrases that deservedly belong in poems. He describes the city of a penisula as "a town so pretty it makes your eyes ache with pleasure just to walk down its spellbinding, narrow streets" (Conroy, 1).



The gorgeous and dramatic city of Charleston first grabbed my attention in high school. For summer reading, I reluctantly chose The Lords of Discipline as my choice. I was not a fan of military content in literature, and was hoping that the book would at least expose me to a new topic. However, I unexpectedly fell in love with the book. Will, the protagonist, reminded me of Holden Caufield. His unrealized good looks and sarcastic persona caused me to develop feelings....for a fictitious character! Then again, I will openly admit that I fell hard for Dmitri from Disney's Anastacia. I know; truly sad, but true.

South of Broad does not compare to Lords of Disclipine. Yet, existing at the same tier of Lords of Discipline is quite the impossible task in my opinion. Regardless, S of B does showcase a bit more versatility in its presentation of characters. There is the jaded main character, Leo King, his former nun and drastically austere mother, and diffident and pleasant father. Then, there are his new neighbor twins, one a flamboyant boy and the other a sassy and voluptuous actress-in-the-making. Orphans enter his life in a sudden wave and are considered mountain hooligans. Lastly, there is the new football coach's son, Ike, a sensitive African American grappling with the racial tension in Charleston.



I am only at Part 2 in the book, but I am slowly but surely finding myself attached to the characters. My curiosity is peaked as I wonder what happened in 1989 (vs. 1969). I am saddened by the calloused disfigurement of Leo. He has led a troubled life, a result of his older brother's childhood suicide. Leo was never as popular or handsome as Steve. Leo cannot seem to fathom living in Steve's shadow or pleasing his parents as effortlessly as Steve did.

Reading this novel in the midst of finals, in the 70's style library that is Drexel's Hagerty Library makes me want to drift off on a magic carpet ride to the mysterious land that is Charleston. I pine for the love of a pretentious community that bases judgements off age-old traditions. I want to bask in the warm rays that hit and deflect the soft waves of the Ashley River. I want to take photographs of cicada-filled magnolia trees. Before reading this novel, I wanted to raise a family in the South, preferably in one of the Carolina's. However, this novel exposed the underlying tensions and hypocrisy that occurs behind the facades of the Charlestonian mansions. I feel bad for Leo, "a boy stopped in time, in a city of amber-colored life that possessed the glamour forbidden to a lesser angel"(Conroy, 6).



I am anxious to read on, to see how the tale unfolds. I know that Leo marries Starla, one of the orphans. But, I am dying to know why as their union is quickly dissipating. Sheba is a famous actress, but her efforts to obtain fame have caused her to lose her sense of self. She is an obnoxious, self-seeking woman. Ike and Betty are married. This is pleasing, but is there more to their picture-perfect marriage? Lastly, what on earth happened to Trevor, the loud and fun-loving brother of Sheba? A classmate of mine, disclosed some information-- after I begged for her to give me some clue to the bombshell that drops at the end of the novel. She acquiesced after much pleading on my part. Apparently, Monsignor Maxwell raped Steve, leading him to take his own life. I find the urgent need to read on. Priestly abuse seems to be a hot topic these days. Charleston has proved to be a mystical place where tragedy and deceit are inevitable.

I will write again after I finish this book...and my finals!
Sincerely, Arlene

Tuesday, 22 May 2012

The Good Mintentions: 2nd Place!

On Sunday, I returned from an awesome weekend at God's Mountain (apt name, right?) in the Poconos. Friday night, Saturday, and Sunday morning were spent with a group of fantastic college students that together make up Cru, a Christian organization on campus. I was excited to embark on this getaway from the usual university weekend--I definitely needed a break from it. God's Mountain was the perfect escape; it was indeed an oasis that only God could create!

Riding in Sam's car from Philadelphia was quite interesting. His heater never stops running, so to balance the intense heat he has to roll down his window. An evening in May is usually on the cooler side, especially when zipping down a highway. Thea and I were dying in the back. We decided to take a nap. Thea decided that the most comfortable position would be sitting on the floor and leaning her head on the seat. When I looked over mid-nap, I was so befuddled; where did Thea go?!

Reaching the retreat center made the arduous journey worth it. The giant house we stayed in was absolutely heartwarming. The living room (or moose room) had two mini-levels, which I thought was interesting. It was filled with deeps reds and wooden tones. The kitchen was huge, and housed all the ingredients that would contribute to our lovely meals. Then, there was an open meeting space. Lastly, there was a gigantic green room that was partitioned into two spaces. The first space was where we would worship and hear our speaker talk. The last spot was a pool, that seemed larger than any other pool I've seen! My friends, Allegra and Priscilla, and I, decided that we would have a secret midnight swim. After hearing that one of the rules was that the pool closed at 11, we felt defeated!

My favorite night had to be Friday night, because everyone was full of energy. Some of us were strangers to one another but we bonded through games of Ninja and Around the World ping pong. I was happy to win a game of ping pong against Cory, an older male. He was dubbed referee for the weekend, so after I proved victorious, he told me to watch out. It was a price I was willing to pay! Our midnight snack was pizza, of which I think we all consumed about 7 pieces!! Also, we initiated the CruOlympics with a torch ceremony. I admired the planning committees efforts to go all out in regards to the theme!


Saturday was certainly taxing, both physically and mentally. We started the day at 8 am, which is an hour that doesn't exist during my usual Saturdays. Most of us did not get adequate sleep the night before. Priscilla and I must have downed three cups of coffee. We had a morning session with Pastor Straugn, who spoke about taking up our crosses. This meant praying consistently, looking out for our brothers and sisters, and appreciating the opportunities God gives us to affect other individuals. He also suggested that we do two things when reading any passage in the Bible: 1. What did God do for me in my broken state? 2. How has He given me grace? The worship sessions that proceeded were so beautiful. We sang songs such as How He Loves, It is Well with My Soul, Everlasting God, Amazing Grace. I started balling during Amazing Grace, because everyone around me was so humbled by God's generous love. I, too, was amazed by his grace. Who else would sacrifice His life for a world, filled with self-seeking sin?


After the morning, the CruOlympics began! We played tanks and drivers, which is a different version of dodgeball. Members of a team must be blindfolded and go down on their knees, while another team member, "the driver," must direct the blind "tank" to shoot at opponents with acquired balls on the ground. Strategy is important and rolling will save you for a fatal ball wound. Other games included kickball, water polo, belly flop contest (who would willingly do that?), and jeopardy. We ended up earning 2nd place, which in my opinion is pretty solid. And I think that the old rhyme rings true: First is the worst, second is the best...

Dinner on Saturday deserves a paragraph of its own. The cooks decided to recreate a Thanksgiving meal, which was fitting since we all felt like family by the day's end. We had mouthwatering turkey, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, and stuffing. This was all accompanied by pumpkin pie. I think I died and went to heaven after that!


I also have to dedicate a paragraph to Andy Young's kids, Hudson and Avery. They were so adorable, and of course, I had to volunteer my babysitting services! They had a lot of fun with the green face paint, and were spreading our team spirit to everyone, including the formerly unbiased referees!

Saturday evening, we held a bonfire and sang some of my favorites songs, including You are my All in All. I really want to start learning the guitar, despite failed attempts freshman year. Part of the reason is that I want to be Taylor Swift, I can't lie (even though one of Swift's songs is I'd Lie!). After that, we held an encouragement session. This meant that we were to go around and give people our encouragement as a brother or sister in Christ. This was great. I learned a lot about myself and about other people. The backyard was lit with candles as we moved about; this was a truly meaningful part of the retreat.

All in all, I had an incredible retreat, growing closer to God and realizing his immense power, love, and grace. It is easy to forget God's presence in your life. This reminded me of how much He cares for me.

 I hope that I pray more often, sing more heartily, and act more selflessly!

In Him,
Arlene






Monday, 14 May 2012

Dancing with the Bachelorette: Monday Funday!

Monday's are shaping up to be quite exciting. First, I don't have classes; this means that Sunday nights are not so stressful thinking about the start of another academic week. I usually sleep in and then figure out a grocery list. For the common college student, this is mundane. However, I absolutely love to cook! Each week, I search for new recipes to try out. Recently, I have tried out tortilla soup, Shepard's pie, Chicken Florentine, beef and lamb stew, Greek orzo, and ceviche. Every trip to the grocery store is an exhilarating adventure, full of new aromas, rich colors, and differing textures.


After buying groceries, I go back to my apartment to choreograph or work on Zumba songs. I usually teach 3-5 songs every Monday and Wednesday night. This is so much fun for me; an added advantage is that I get quite the work out while I plan specific moves and combinations. Next, is Zumba itself. This is a complete thrill for me. I cannot wait for the day that I start teaching my own class. It will also force me to stay in shape, as it takes loads of energy to direct a group of people.

Next, I try to get in a little bit of Dancing with the Stars. This period is accompanied by the lukewarm dish that has been waiting for me when I return from the gym. Lastly, I am part of an intramural soccer team this spring. This is a blast! While I am running up and down the fields in my bright red pinny, I feel nostalgic as I inhale the raw odor of unwashed mesh material. I've gotten compliments on my soccer skills, which instills the lost faith I had in myself during high school.

Once I am finished with soccer, I usually watch an episode of The Client List. My main reason for watching this show is that I am waiting anxiously to see Jennifer Love Hewitt and Colin Egglesfield get together. They are too cute and are perfect for one another.


Now that I have discussed my Monday routine, I'd like to dive deeper into the topics of DWTS and The Bachelorette, which premiered tonight. I absolutely love the four remaining couples on this dancing hit. Although I miss seeing Tristan MacManus and Maks Chmeriosky shake their tail feathers, the four couples left make up in charm and drive.

Peta and Donald Driver make a great duo. It is hilarious to watch Donald fall and slide on the floor anytime he exudes emotion. They have convincing chemistry. I find Katherine Jenkins to be the most adorable woman ever! She is so sweet and innocent, yet she really brings "sexy back" on the dance floor. To add to it all, she is a talented opera singer. A part of me really wants her to win. She has been the most consistent from week to week and has dared to do dance moves that are outside her comfort zone.

Next, Maria Menounos and Mark have proven that they deserve to be there. Maria unleashed her amazing dance skills after several weeks and earned the first 30 points of the season. I am super impressed by her determination to nail every dance and to overcome painful injuries. Their Bollywood-inspired Samba last week was a.m.a.z.i.n.g!

Lastly, William Levy and Cheryl are too hot to handle! At first, I thought William was too pretty to be attractive (if that makes any sense at all!). However, he definitely grew on me as he displayed an admirable work ethic each week. His story of childhood poverty moved me and makes me feel proud at how far he has come. I can honestly say that it doesn't matter who wins in the end. They all deserve the mirror ball trophy!! I hope I can "mirror" some of their slick moves in the Zumba classroom!  (P.S. Rumor has it that Maks and Peta are dating.....dayummmmm)

Now on to the highly anticipated The Bachelorette. I am one of those die hard fans of the franchise. I have literally watched the show from the very beginning. I actually saw Alex, the first bachelor, at Penn Station but was too embarrassed to admit I remember him. Emily Maynard is a Southern sweetheart. And like most of America, I am saddened and moved by her tragic love story. Thankfully, remnants of her charmed life still remain today in the form of her adorable daughter, Ricki.


This season seems like it is going to be great. I like how the location has moved to Charlotte. A change in scene was needed. I was starting to get sick of the fake rained-upon-look of the stone floor outside of the California mansion. After watching tonight's episode, I have a few favorites. I think Ryan, the fitness guy, has got to be the most gorgeous contestant. ever. I hope he makes it to the end. I also think Arie is cute. It helps that his name is cool. I also find the biology teacher and the Colombian to be potential winners. As I write this, I realize that I have forgotten the rest of the men I wanted to mention. It seems like they didn't leave a lasting impression on me!

As I end this post, I want to list who I think could be future DWTS contestants. The fun thing about the show is that the group is always random and picks stars from every category of stardom. Also, it feels like the stars are always B-listers, which I find to be quite comical! So, here are celebrities that I think will show up in upcoming seasons:


Larry King
Regis Philbin
Luke Perry
Aretha Franklin
Charlotte Church
Brooklyn Decker
Judd Apatow
Meghan McCain
Mark Consuelos
Nick Jonas
Paula Abdul
Wilmer Valderamma
Bruce or Brody Jenner
Gabriel Aubry
America Ferrara
Kimberly Williams Paisley
Corbin Bleu
Gisele Bundchen
Meredith Viera
Heidi Montag
Hayley Duff
Clay Aiken
Kevin Federline
Mischa Barton
Eddie Cibrian
Rachael Ray
Rumer Willis
Freddie Prinze Jr.

That's all for now folks! Until next time, have a great week!
Arlene